About The Author
Table of Contents
- Introduction
- General Information
- Ancestry
- Why I Chose Not To Have Nipples
- External Links
Introduction
Hello there. I made this website and I figured that I should probably let people know more about myself. The pages of this website that have the color theme that matches this one will also contain my personal experiences and/or other things that I have made. This whole website contains my personal thoughts and opinions on various topics, but these pages are a bit separate from the rest of this site.
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General Information
For pronouns, I primarily use he/him pronouns in my day-to-day life. If you are going to pick a pronoun for me to stick with, refer to me with he/him. If you don't want to do that, then use xe/xem to refer to me. If you know how to be respectful about it, feel free to use it/its pronouns to refer to me. I have zero objection to being referred to as bingus/binguself. If you use any other pronouns to refer to me, I will probably not correct you, but I will not object if anyone else decides to correct you. This is because using any other pronouns to refer to me is incorrect, and I am (generally speaking) non-confrontational.
Regarding my gender identity, I identify as a genderqueer FTM man. It would also be appropriate to describe me as the following; binary male, butch, endosex, masculine of center, a tranny (if you are also one), or simply as a transgender man (if you don't feel like going into detail about it).
As for medical transition, I am a pre-op salmacian. I have had a double incision mastectomy without nipple grafts on 02/07/2022. I have been taking testosterone since September 2020. First, I was on the patches, then the gel, and now SUBQ injections. In regards to my hormonal masculinization, while I was unfortunately not able to go on puberty blockers, I am 5'8 feet tall, which is taller than approximately 70% of people that I interact with. I've also had a salphingectomy.
As someone reading my words through the internet, you don't know exactly what I look like. That's ok. I can list some phrases that could be used to describe my gender expression. Just to help you perhaps attempt to visualize; en homme, gender bender, genderfuck, gender non-conforming, gender-variant, male impersonator, & passing. Though, if you know what I look like, there's probably no point.
This is the gender website, but here are some miscellaneous sexuality-related terms that are relevant to me, James. My name is James, by the way. My initials spell JAR. Anyways, the list follows as such; androsexual, demiromantic, demisexual, faggot, homosexual, man-loving-man, & queer.
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Ancestry
I am half American and half French
Below is my Ancestry DNA results.
Edit: Got a notification that apparently my results are now more specific?
https://www.bbb.org/us/ut/lehi/profile/genealogy/ancestrycom-1166-2003190
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Why I Chose Not To Have Nipples
On February 7, 2022, I had a double incision mastectomy without nipple grafts. This means that I do not have nipples or breasts. Below is a list of miscellaneous reasons why I chose this. These reasons are not ranked in any particular order, simply in whatever order I can recall said reasons. These reasons are not all of the same level of personal importance.
- More aerodynamic.
- Didn't like them anyway.
- More space for tattoos (if I ever manage to afford it). While I currently have no tattoos, I have several ideas for tattoos in the chest area. Potentially buttons where the nipples "should" be. Maybe googly eyes. Or something.
- Analyzing people's reactions.
- Usually, people say nothing about it. A lot of people seem to have the urge to get a marker and draw dots/circles in the spots where nipples "should" be.
- Sometimes people say that it is werid that I don't have nipples. They generally get really offended if I repeat exactly what they said but in reverse (ex. "It is weird that you have nipples").
- To test censorship. Typically, nipples are what get censored on things such as social media. If I have none, what is there to be offended by?
- #FreeTheNipple
- It looks cool.
- Faster healing time after surgery (was not deliberate but found this out after surgery).
- Look like an anime boy lol.
- Trauma.
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External Links
- CashApp (https://cash.app/$PensAreCool) - Buy me a tattoo? Or something else. Not interested in asking money here for things that I need but I would really appreciate getting something in exchange for all this work :)
- Throne Wishlist (https://throne.com/pensarecool) - get treats for my cats or something
- YouTube Channel (https://www.youtube.com/@sugarchipsclub4169) - check out this YouTube channel for fun and engaging videos.
